tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640940937476188368.post7423218244326397416..comments2023-09-01T06:33:45.354-05:00Comments on Gimme Bliss: How I Healed After My MiscarriageTiffany Hamburgerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11215028451823189173noreply@blogger.comBlogger35125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640940937476188368.post-78969949398329654232019-11-09T06:40:21.021-06:002019-11-09T06:40:21.021-06:00Thank you so much for sharing this post! I went to...Thank you so much for sharing this post! I went to<br />The doctor Thursday because I saw light brown spotting, which ppl kept telling me it was normal but it didn’t sit right with me! So I made an appointment for the same day! She did the ultra sound and at 8 weeks and 3 day’s there was no heartbeat! And this was I second! We were so excited and happy and now I just feel broken and alone ��Nicolehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11994817358364172243noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640940937476188368.post-59381427399827645832019-06-23T20:45:38.565-05:002019-06-23T20:45:38.565-05:00I am about to try for another baby and my emotions...I am about to try for another baby and my emotions have stirred again about my loss a few months ago. This article was lovely to read and just what I needed to see.rhihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00758834588121746068noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640940937476188368.post-57082896391681986152016-09-25T05:20:43.609-05:002016-09-25T05:20:43.609-05:00Thank you so much for all your words about this. I...Thank you so much for all your words about this. I am deeply hurt by my miscarriage yesterday and I have found help and a bit of peace here. namaste Camillahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17898502371292822238noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640940937476188368.post-1864389970353419472016-09-10T06:45:45.648-05:002016-09-10T06:45:45.648-05:00I am very thankful for your words. I just found ou...I am very thankful for your words. I just found out my little sprout is suddenly missing a heartbeat. I am awaiting a miscarriage and your words gave me faith to endure this. ❤ Erendiranoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640940937476188368.post-15894299915411330152016-07-21T11:53:58.187-05:002016-07-21T11:53:58.187-05:00I loved your post. I went thru a miscarriage in Ja...I loved your post. I went thru a miscarriage in January. I was 20 weeks. I am still healing. I hate hiding my miscarriage like it's a shameful event. At first that's what it felt like to me. I blamed myself just as you did. I think we just try so hard to search for the answer to why? Maybe if we knew we could get passed it. I blamed God. To me the hardest part is trying to understand God's plan. I felt depressed for the longest and faithless. It hurt to know I hated God because I grew up very religious. I hate the fact women don't speak about it. I was scared and sad to speak about my baby but now I acknowledge that she was in my life and that her life filled me with joy and love. It is a very difficult subject to speak about because it's a sad truth but I feel women need to share their experiences and not be suffering in silence. I was surprised to find out I had two close friends who suffered alone. I felt horrible when they told me because to fight thru that pain alone and in private it's unimaginable. I love that you shared your story and with the truth because all of us who have suffered can really relate to your story. I continue to heal with faith. I can laugh and go on in life but there is an imprint in my heart that reminds me of the blessings and scars.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01035183677340031761noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640940937476188368.post-65424679852395422822016-06-20T21:43:40.396-05:002016-06-20T21:43:40.396-05:00Thank you so much for putting your energy and expe...Thank you so much for putting your energy and experience out into the universe. I'm grateful to have just read this. I'm searching for ways to heal. 10 weeks and was very proud. I hope to have the courage you had. We hope to try again. Peace to you ♡ ~Tiffany F.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10334203457450591685noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640940937476188368.post-53077347237525119882015-11-22T07:30:27.822-06:002015-11-22T07:30:27.822-06:00Melissa i also just found out at 10 wks 2 days tha...Melissa i also just found out at 10 wks 2 days that i had suffered a miscarriage and they said the baby stopped growing at 8 weeks. This was going to be my third baby. I had so many thoughs and plans for that baby. This baby in my eyes was a perfect meant to be gift from God. We had put off trying for a third for 2 years and finally said now is the time and we were fortunally pregnate the first month. I just dont know why this perfect gift was taken away feom us. I pray that the Lord blesses us again real soon. I need to fill this lost and empty void. Tabathahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07691014991976667761noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640940937476188368.post-71153738047989078002015-11-12T21:00:49.517-06:002015-11-12T21:00:49.517-06:00I just passed what I am sure was my baby about 9 w...I just passed what I am sure was my baby about 9 weeks. Thank you for this wonderful post! It really helped me to remember what I already knew about frief!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15294824952629494658noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640940937476188368.post-63138586129397887462015-10-21T17:25:00.275-05:002015-10-21T17:25:00.275-05:00Thank you so much for this post. I just went throu...Thank you so much for this post. I just went through a miscarriage after finding out at ten weeks that the baby had no heartbeat and had stopped developing at eight weeks. So much of what you said reflected all of the feelings I have been feeling and I just wanted to let you know how much this post has helped me. Blessings of healing and hope to anyone else who is healing through this heartbreaking experience.Melissanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640940937476188368.post-5819119297636904922015-10-12T22:09:50.354-05:002015-10-12T22:09:50.354-05:00Hello Tiffany, I found out we lost our baby today ...Hello Tiffany, I found out we lost our baby today at my 5 month check up..I found your story through the Glow/Nurture app..I got to the part where you said, you wanted to find something to control, a way to keep it from happening again.. I broke..I am trying so hard to stay strong, not cry every 5 minutes, my boyfriend is too..he's hurt and feels this might be his fault..I know it's not either of our faults..but not knowing why is killing me, us...I'm getting induced in the morning, personal choice for our situation.. Anyways, I just wanted to thank you, for your honesty and your story, sincerely JessalynAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06348413366006264357noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640940937476188368.post-59622025763088718882015-09-14T11:45:10.323-05:002015-09-14T11:45:10.323-05:00Tiffany, this is the only thing which has truly re...Tiffany, this is the only thing which has truly resonated with me in the few days since I lost our first little one at almost 7 weeks. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for sharing this very private pain.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15688471247267574721noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640940937476188368.post-29541149391736524192014-11-12T00:30:53.921-06:002014-11-12T00:30:53.921-06:00Thank you for this post. In the days following my...Thank you for this post. In the days following my miscarriage, I've been searching for the reasons why, straining to find comfort, relief from the blame, shame and burden that this has brought me. Your post have given me some of that.Tabathahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00407545854484941607noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640940937476188368.post-43853241441795260972014-10-25T15:13:23.304-05:002014-10-25T15:13:23.304-05:00Thank you...I am 6 days post miscarriage, and I ke...Thank you...I am 6 days post miscarriage, and I keep having flashbacks to passing my 9 week gestation embryo in the tub. This was comforting to read.<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640940937476188368.post-14860266829428473632014-10-20T19:42:43.696-05:002014-10-20T19:42:43.696-05:00Thank you Tiffany for your blog and this post. I ...Thank you Tiffany for your blog and this post. I am going through a miscarriage right now, and the sadness is just permeating through me. I love life, I love feeling the joy of just being alive, and this week has just taken the sun out of my world. thank you for sharing what you have gone through. It gives me hope. And encourages me to keep looking inward and feeling my feelings, taking the time to heal. <br />Thank you so much!<br />Best,<br />StefAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640940937476188368.post-25603324997212190422014-06-24T14:44:45.987-05:002014-06-24T14:44:45.987-05:00I am going through this right now. Thank you for ...I am going through this right now. Thank you for writing this.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640940937476188368.post-58148547127082979082014-04-10T23:18:12.600-05:002014-04-10T23:18:12.600-05:00Hi Tiffany, your post made my eyes filled with tea...Hi Tiffany, your post made my eyes filled with tears. Im sorry to hear about your loss.<br />I just had a miscarriage at 9 weeks and it was our second. I'm a very private person myself and this is the first time I'm expressing my feelings about my miscarriage. <br />Your post has given me support and strength to share how miserable and sad I feel emotionally about my loss. I want to cry out loud and get the pain out of my system. But at the same time I want to thank God for giving me the blessing of a normal and healthy 4 year old beautiful daughter, who is the sunshine in my life. <br /><br />I'm glad that I came across your beautiful blog. It helped me open up. Thanks. Najianoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640940937476188368.post-80855924654283889202013-10-15T07:08:05.961-05:002013-10-15T07:08:05.961-05:00I had a miscarriage in June I was also 11 weeks an...I had a miscarriage in June I was also 11 weeks and 4 days and had my scan booked in that week but I didn't get to hear my baby's heartbeat or see him/her :-( now 4 months later I am still not pregnant n I am still finding it extremely difficult to not think about it. Since the miscarriage my body acts like it is pregnant every month. I get sore boobs, bloated belly, feel sick, lower back pain which all remind me of the pregnancy n make me think that I might b pregnant again. I have wasted so much money on doing pregnancy tests a week before my period is due coz I cannot wait to seee if I will b late or not. It's driving me crazy! Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640940937476188368.post-10693661057534196272013-09-22T23:04:04.603-05:002013-09-22T23:04:04.603-05:00Thank you for sharing this...so helpful. And I am ...Thank you for sharing this...so helpful. And I am drinking my raspberry leaf tea right now!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640940937476188368.post-21498688378687907872013-09-09T16:06:54.601-05:002013-09-09T16:06:54.601-05:00I came across this randomly after a google search....I came across this randomly after a google search. I just lost my baby at 9 weeks. It was so honest and so beautiful in contrast with all of the everything-will-be-okays I've heard all week. I don't have a carefully worded, put-together response. I just really want to let you know this is so hard for me to read, in a good way. Healing hurts and I can't get all the way through your post because it's painful to face the truth, like you said, and I appreciate that I can bookmark this and read it over and over until I don't need it anymore. I can hardly talk aloud about it. People just finding out through the grapevine are congratulating me still, family members are asking about names and due dates, and I'm not correcting anyone. I needed this. Thank you.Madisonnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640940937476188368.post-87599677435500554652013-07-15T21:45:28.413-05:002013-07-15T21:45:28.413-05:00So many stories, so many lives cut way too short. ...So many stories, so many lives cut way too short. My deepest empathy and sympathy to all who have commented; we are sisters in this experience, and I send you all my love and my wish for eventual peace, whenever the time is right. <br /><br />All my love,<br />TiffanyTiffany Hamburgerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11215028451823189173noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640940937476188368.post-33018258518273053482013-07-14T10:23:55.654-05:002013-07-14T10:23:55.654-05:00thank you Tiffany, I'm in the middle of this h...thank you Tiffany, I'm in the middle of this healing process, I had to go through it on my own, and now I'm only sharing what happened, two years later. It can take an even longer time to accept if the surrounding environment is capable to, so going through it again, but now sharing it and I must say that sharing in itself is what makes the lost child come to life, even if it's gone, and yet.. it's not, it remains part of me, and I know it's somehow still around. Peace to you - IAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640940937476188368.post-62772872579192787472013-07-13T09:31:24.095-05:002013-07-13T09:31:24.095-05:00Thanks Tiffany for sharing this, this is a very to...Thanks Tiffany for sharing this, this is a very touching post, something that made me well up throughout reading your post, at the same time has helped me put it into perspective.<br />I suffered my first miscarriage a couple of weeks ago, and I'm hurting really bad emotionally. It was my first pregnancy and I am very shaken up my the experience. I was 11 weeks 5 days pregnant, just 1 day short of my first scan. We were due to announce the great news to everyone, but instead I was sharing the sad news of what happened. I didn't even get to hear my baby's heart beat. It was taken away from me in the blink of an eye. Your post has given me some strength. Thanks so much for sharingAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640940937476188368.post-9502933486656141402013-06-30T08:05:32.465-05:002013-06-30T08:05:32.465-05:00This is beautiful and so heart rending! I also hav...This is beautiful and so heart rending! I also have a tragic story to share as something similar happened to me but twice in a row! I had a miscarriage at 12 weeks 4 days last year and it was my first pregnancy! As it was a late first trimester MC , i had to go through a d & c! it took me days to heal but then i accepted it as god' s will and went on with my life! After trying for 9 months , i got pregnant again but lost that baby too at 8 weeks! It was a missed MC and the baby stopped growing at 6 weeks! I am still waiting for my body to expel on its own or else will have to go through another d & c! well, as much as i am sad and hopeless for my future pregnancies... there is also a huge void left behind .... i dont have kids and that makes it all the more difficult! seeing my friends and relatives delivering healthy babies .... it makes it all the more challenging to cope! But meditation helps me .... a lot ..... that is what keeps me going and my blind faith in god and nature us even strengthened after this second loss ! everything happens for a very good reason we all are unaware of! i am trying to go with the flow and taking each day as it comes.... i live alone with my husband far away from my country w/o friends or relatives here .... but trying to find peace within ..,,, and talking it out with my family and few friends ... this too shall pass .... thanks for the lovely and inspiring post ... it truly helped ...... may god grant u peace and strength ...... in your life and lots of luck :-) Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640940937476188368.post-87212896674896545602013-05-11T00:18:36.787-05:002013-05-11T00:18:36.787-05:00Thank you. I truly needed thisThank you. I truly needed thisAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640940937476188368.post-12982555851109716872013-05-03T05:57:39.057-05:002013-05-03T05:57:39.057-05:00Hi Tiffany,
I lost my 13.5-week old baby last wee...Hi Tiffany,<br /><br />I lost my 13.5-week old baby last week. I saw his eyes, nose, mouth, hands, legs, toes, ears....he was fully formed. He was supposed to be our second, as well. <br /><br />The pain was unbearable. I had the same feeling you had, when i knew I was pregnant. The uncertainty if I can take care of him aside from my first son, my body, stopping yoga, etc., I blamed myself for not caring more, but now coming into terms that I do not have control over what happened, and so many women experience miscarriage, but never talked about it openly.<br /><br />Unfortunately, our son was there, only for a short time. I loved him more than anything, i cried and cried and cried, until i got numb of crying. The pain is nothing like any other, the loss of our unborn child - why me..!? <br /><br />Your story is very inspiring. You are right, my love for my son and husband have deepened even more. I've valued both of them more now, than ever before.<br /><br />I hope time heals all pains and sorrows. Stay strong.<br /><br />ErzErznoreply@blogger.com